Wednesday, February 03, 2010

Rascals

As always it's been pretty busy in our house. We have been concerned with Jase's communication skills and looking for resources and options. I have contacted the county school system and they will be testing him. We had his hearing and vision tested and he passed those both. We are on week 4 of getting Jase to be on a dairy/casein free diet. I have been reading about how our diet affects our behaviors and our development. Of course being totally organic, no processed foods, no food dyes, toxic free home is the ultimate goal but one step at a time. I found on a website www.generationrescue.com that removing diary from children's diets can help them with their behaviors and communication skills. You would have to read more about it since it's all new to me about the details. When I read what other parents were saying about their children and how they had improved, I thought "why not give it a shot?" He is now able to answer many questions when I ask him, whereas before he would just look at me and repeat the question. He is now starting to be able to answer "yes" or "no" to some questions. It's still a work in progress but he is improving. He is more calm and has less fits, which is huge because it was a daily occurrence for him before. I need to learn more about it and wish there was a course or something I could take because by the end of the day I just want to veg out in front of the TV. I will keep you posted on his progress.

Jase normally doesn't like to color or paint and almost always never participates at school art activities. So I thought I would give it a go and sure enough he painted a "rainbow" for me. I gave him the paint and he went at it. I asked him what he was painting, not expecting him to answer me, and he said rainbow. I almost cried.

Examining that paint before mixing them all together, which made a rainbow colored affect. Doubt he intentionally did that but it was neat.



Zach thinking he is so big eating his cereal with a spoon. It has been a week since I stopped nursing Zach and we both haven't even looked back! I was nursing him twice a day and it just seemed that I wasn't making much milk and he was getting really angry when the milk took to long to let down. So I pulled the plug and did us both a favor. Looks like my body may not produce milk past 16 months since this is when it stopped when I was nursing Jase but I thought it was because I was pregnant with Zach.

It is hard to get him to smile and look at the camera at the same time. Usually he closes his eyes because he thinks it's going to flash in his eyes.


I am not sure what went wrong with my Chocolate Mousse pie that I was making with dark chocolate tofu. Maybe I beat it too long and too high? Well this is what it looked like. Sunken in and quite awful looking. It went straight to the garbage.




Zach loves to feed himself and many times gets very angry and refuses to eat if you try to feed him. He is a stubborn little guy. See that bottle? Well, I nursed him exclusively and right before turning one I thought I would occasionally give him a bottle to just make sure he was getting enough fluids. I probably used up about two canisters of formula total. I stopped doing it for a couple of months and then one day he found a bottle in the pantry and pulled it out and was grunting and handing it to me. I filled it with warm milk and he drank the entire thing. So now when I get him up first thing in the morning and after his nap I bring him a bottle. This is the only thing that keeps him from crying and kicking when I lay him down to change his diaper. You would think that after 16 months he would realize that he has to have his diaper changed no matter what. Nope, I guess it's a habit to get angry and cry and kick when I change his diaper. What happened to my chill baby?


As you can kind of tell by this picture his front is turning grey. He was trying to play with his new big wheel and was rocking back and forth real fast and bumped his mouth on the handle part. It wasn't until about two weeks later we saw it getting grey. We took both Jase and Zach into Jason's office and had their front teeth x-rayed. We are almost certain that he will lose that tooth. Root canal on Jase?! I can't even imagine it. The x-rays were so cool though, you could see the permanent (adult) teeth sitting right behind the baby teeth waiting to come out. This may be something you know but for me I was shocked! I yelled out "it's like a shark!" Too cool.


Playing in the pine straw is tons of fun for them.



Jase loves playing with his "Christmas Thomas" in the dirt. He will do this for as long as you let him and boy does he get dirty.


I could keep this hat on him all the time. I wish I would have bought one in every size when I originally bought it for Jase. Zach is still not talking and I am only giving him his pacifier at bedtimes. He babbles but he has a lot of catching up to do. He does sign though and actually uses them to get what he wants. It is so cool when he is grunting and wanting to tell me something then sticks up his hand and does the milk sign. He shakes his head no when he doesn't want to eat something, which cracks me up because I don't remember Jase doing that at all.


Look at those sweet BIG little hands.


Jase is so much gentler with Zach since removing dairy from his diet. He actually offers him toys and food, where before he really had no interest in him except for pushing him or knocking him over.
Jase has been sick with diarrhea and some throwing up the last several days. This photo was taken yesterday afternoon. We went to the doctor and they checked for Strep but it came back negative. They then wanted me to get stool samples to be tested for parasites, E Coli, Salmonella and some other things to rule out if it wasn't a virus. When I went to get him out of his room yesterday there was throw-up all over his bedroom floor and he was covered in poo. Poor guy didn't even cry for us and I found him all curled in a ball on the floor in his Thomas tent. I have no idea how long he had been up but he was so pitiful with sunken eyes and pale skin. He still has bad rings under his eyes but seems to be feeling a little better and ate breakfast and some lunch. Hopefully his body can get rid of this and he can gain some weight back. He has lost 4 pounds.

Zach fell at school and chipped his front tooth. They called to tell me that he had fallen and weren't sure if it had chipped. Well, let's put it this way, 1/4 of his tooth is gone....uh YES he chipped his tooth!!! So now both boys have chipped front teeth.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Holiday trip

Traveling almost 2,000 miles total in just under two weeks from Georgia to Virginia to Ohio then back to Georgia. That was our Christmas and New Year holiday. The trip to Virginia took FOREVER it seemed. It was a little over 13 hours. The reason it took so long is because of two traffic jams on the interstate along the way. Jase is the ultimate traveler with his blankie, pacifier and DVD set on Thomas the Tank Engine movies. Zach on the other hand doesn't really like being in the car for long periods of time and was seen literally pulling his hair out. He did watch the Thomas videos but for 13 hours straight he had had enough. After that long trip they were very happy to see their Grammy and Pawpaw and Uncle Brian and Aunt Betsy. They had had a big snow storm before we came and Jase loved the snow. All he wanted to do was push the his Thomas through it. We had our first Christmas their then we drove to Ohio to see the rest of Jason's family. It snowed while we were there which was great because we moved farther south which makes it less likely that the boys will see snow at our house. After a few days there we headed to my parent's home for a second Christmas celebration and New Years. What a wonderful time we had traveling from family to family. Many new Thomas trains and lots of wonderful stuff later and we are home. Back to the daily grind. The boys each had their "Well Checks" and as usual they are my hefty boys. Zach weighs 28 lbs 12 ozs and is 33 and 3/4 inches tall. Jase weighs 48 lbs and is 3 ft 5 inches tall. Zach was referred to the ENT to have his ears checked and see if they are preventing him from being able to hear to speak. Part of the reason he isn't talking is because I keep a pacifier in his mouth all the time so it's now only given to him during his nap and bedtime. So hopefully he will be speaking real soon.



The two monsters ready to brave the snow!



Uncle Brian showing Jase how to be on top of the mountain



Zach thought it was cold but had a good time in the snow



so cute


Digging in the dirt



Help I can't see! and yes he is waist deep in snow.





There is the trusty Thomas in the snow.



Zach learning how to jump in snow.




Is he hugging the snow??




This is what I call "at the wrong place at the right time". Jase had no idea.


Check out the gloves on Zach.




Look Grammy, I can dig in the snow too!




Christmas morning Jase did not want to put on his Santa outfit. Well, after much fighting and screaming he accepted that he was going to have to wear it. The next day he didn't want to put on his clothes, he wanted to put on the Santa outfit! .

Grammy gave them green chocolate Christmas tree lollipops to start of the day! Grandparents are the best. Playing with some of his new trains.


Zach had fun eating this and helping everyone open their presents.

If you look real close at Jase's mouth, that is the sideways smirk that means he really likes something.

Gotta keep an eye on Thomas to make sure he is going in a straight line on those tracks.

Zach and I posing



Zach being entertained by Uncle Brian or is it Uncle Brian being entertained by Zach??
Jase, Zach and me eating snow. YUM


We brought in a sink full of snow for Jase to play with so he wouldn't get so cold and neither would any of the adults. He loved it.


Christmas dinner! Check out my super cute Sister-in-law that is pregnant!
I see a resemblance


We were at Jason's grandmother's home and we had Zach sleeping in one room and Jase slept on the floor behind the couch in the room that the men were in watching sports. Prior to this I would have told you there was no way he could have fallen asleep here.

Jase and his cozy nap spot.



Our family with Nene, Jason's darling grandmother.



Jase adventuring in the Ohio snow. Thomas in hand of course.


Loves the snow and even though it was cold I loved that it would melt and Thomas would stay clean unlike the dirt in our yard that ends up being tracked through the house all over Thomas.

Check out that face of pure excitement that his Thomas is in the snow.


He is Awe.



Gotta place that snow just right like in the movies.




all bundled up




That snowsuit must have been warm to lay in the snow.




Oops he fell in the snow.



Back in Georgia at my parent's house. Zach checking out one of his cool toys.




You see this chaos. It doesn't have to be Christmas to be chaotic with all three grandchildren around! Great time and great memories.